<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255</id><updated>2011-11-27T20:18:33.433-05:00</updated><category term='GI Joe'/><category term='Nikki Stiletto'/><category term='Drama Free Summer'/><category term='Transition'/><category term='New York'/><category term='My hair'/><category term='Relationships'/><category term='New Year'/><category term='Real Talk'/><category term='Stiletto Deals'/><category term='Hosea Chanchez'/><category term='Vacation'/><category term='Happy Birthday'/><category term='Prayer'/><category term='Men'/><category term='Advice'/><category term='Natural hair'/><category term='Miami'/><category term='Really  So Thats What We&apos;re Doing Now'/><category term='RIP'/><category term='New music'/><category term='Stiletto Approved'/><category term='Jill Scott'/><category term='Been MIA'/><category term='Links'/><category term='I don&apos;t get it'/><category term='Randomness'/><category term='Friday Fun'/><category term='Update'/><category term='Haiti'/><category term='Rant'/><category term='Maxwell'/><category term='Product Alert'/><category term='Events'/><category term='Michael Jackson'/><category term='Giving Back'/><category term='Randome Cleb Mess'/><category term='The Shoe Closet'/><title type='text'>Nikki Stiletto</title><subtitle type='html'>Life, Love, and when all else fails Shoes!</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>47</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-4504018806816799628</id><published>2011-01-13T23:33:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2011-01-14T00:01:37.256-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Nikki Stiletto'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Update'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Natural hair'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='New Year'/><title type='text'>Happy New Year!!!</title><summary type='text'>Happy New Year12 days after the fact but Happy New Year all the same.  The last half of 2010 was a whirlwind I changed jobs, hair textures, and attitudes all in the span of 5 months.   I left my job in education after 9 years to go into the non profit sector. I also let go of a lot resentment and anger toward people and situations that were not allowing me to grow. I also FINALLY BC'ed on a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/4504018806816799628/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=4504018806816799628&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/4504018806816799628'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/4504018806816799628'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2011/01/happy-new-year.html' title='Happy New Year!!!'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-899002456638066641</id><published>2010-08-19T21:46:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T19:53:33.858-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Nikki Stiletto'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Real Talk'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Update'/><title type='text'>You never miss the water till the well run BONE dry</title><summary type='text'>Sooooo,For the past 2 weeks since I've given my resignation notice to my job I have seen an interesting phenomenon happening: Appreciation! All the words that I needed to hear, all the accolades that I've deserved, and all the accommodations that I wanted have been given to me. Its funny how me leaving have prompted my supervisors to treat me the way I should have been </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/899002456638066641/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=899002456638066641&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/899002456638066641'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/899002456638066641'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/08/you-never-miss-water-till-well-run-bone.html' title='You never miss the water till the well run BONE dry'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-7999930039325198125</id><published>2010-08-06T18:42:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-08-26T16:59:49.587-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Transition'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Product Alert'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Natural hair'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Links'/><title type='text'>NYC: Kinky Curly @ Ricky's</title><summary type='text'>I was shopping on a lunch break with a co-worker, and I stumbled into Ricky looking for some make-up and low an behold as I strolled passed the hair products isle what did i see: Kinky Curly products. the same Kinky Curly products that were sold out for a month at my favorite Whole Food (14th Street and Union Square).  So i promptly brought a bottle of Knot Today and Curly Pudding.  So for all my</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/7999930039325198125/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=7999930039325198125&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/7999930039325198125'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/7999930039325198125'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/08/nyc-kinky-curly-rickys.html' title='NYC: Kinky Curly @ Ricky&apos;s'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-5533620940353389859</id><published>2010-08-04T14:15:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T19:49:26.212-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Transition'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Nikki Stiletto'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Real Talk'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Update'/><title type='text'>Franklin Has Left the Building!!!!</title><summary type='text'>So after months of unhappiness, stress, and disappointment.......... I got a new JOB.I am going from higher education to working with a non profit on the secondary school level. I'm excited, I start in my new position on August 30th but it is a bitter sweet transition. I've worked for my old job for the past 9 years so it is a significant chunk of my 20's. I wish the best to the next "Franklin</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/5533620940353389859/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=5533620940353389859&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/5533620940353389859'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/5533620940353389859'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/08/franklin-has-left-building.html' title='Franklin Has Left the Building!!!!'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-6732021929197795858</id><published>2010-07-10T00:45:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2010-07-10T01:07:11.970-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='New York'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jill Scott'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Stiletto Approved'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Maxwell'/><title type='text'>Maxwell &amp; Jill Scott @ MSG review</title><summary type='text'>I know I said I would post a review of the Maxwell Jill Scott concert.  It was sooo beyond excellent I wasn't sure that I could cover it all so I found the next best thing: footage on Youtube so you can see for yourself a glimpse of how they tore the house downJill Scott was amazing her voice was THE TRUTH, Maxwell was at his best and seduced the crowd.  This show was so worth the ticket price </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/6732021929197795858/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=6732021929197795858&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/6732021929197795858'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/6732021929197795858'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/07/maxwell-jill-scott-msg-review.html' title='Maxwell &amp; Jill Scott @ MSG review'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-6261120420915128500</id><published>2010-06-29T11:47:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T19:45:44.126-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='New York'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jill Scott'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Stiletto Approved'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Maxwell'/><title type='text'>Stay Turned: Maxwell &amp; Jill Scott @ MSG review</title><summary type='text'>Hey People,You would think that the way I raved about getting tickets to this concert I would have broke my neck to tell you all about it......but real life reared its ugly head and I had work to do this week before I started my vacation on Thursday. So stay tuned I will fill you in on Jill's AWESOMENESS and Maxwell's brazen sex talk sometime this week. I am headed to the South for some R&amp;R </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/6261120420915128500/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=6261120420915128500&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/6261120420915128500'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/6261120420915128500'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/06/stay-turned-maxwell-jill-scott-msg.html' title='Stay Turned: Maxwell &amp; Jill Scott @ MSG review'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/TCrN44AvGDI/AAAAAAAAABo/jqRXN4REQzA/s72-c/Maxwell+Gap+Ad.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-792569089349988892</id><published>2010-06-25T09:01:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T19:43:50.017-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Michael Jackson'/><title type='text'>Michael  even a year later we never can say good-bye</title><summary type='text'>Its been a year, we still miss the music, the magic, the manToday it all about #MJAllDayWe want to celebrate his life and his legacyAnd when the groove is dead and gone, we know that love survives so we can rock forever on....</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/792569089349988892/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=792569089349988892&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/792569089349988892'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/792569089349988892'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/06/michael-even-year-later-we-never-can.html' title='Michael  even a year later we never can say good-bye'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-5975259563709715050</id><published>2010-06-24T12:45:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T19:42:31.162-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Been MIA'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Nikki Stiletto'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jill Scott'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Michael Jackson'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Update'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Maxwell'/><title type='text'>I know I know I know.....Where have YOU BEEN</title><summary type='text'>I know I've been more then MIA lately, I've gone missing like Neffe's period..... In my defense life has thrown me a few curve balls and I've been preoccupied. (plus damn it I was tired I work hard I get lazy!) My professional life has been kicking my butt, and I've had to work through some issue. On my job in my department I am Charlie Brown's friend Franklin (you know the ONLY black character).</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/5975259563709715050/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=5975259563709715050&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/5975259563709715050'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/5975259563709715050'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/06/i-know-i-know-i-knowwhere-have-you-been.html' title='I know I know I know.....Where have YOU BEEN'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-1094349425285180141</id><published>2010-06-19T00:26:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-07-10T00:30:07.474-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Nikki Stiletto'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='My hair'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Update'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Natural hair'/><title type='text'>One Year...</title><summary type='text'>Today is one year to the day that I got my last perm.......I remember because I had to get my hair done for my god daughter 1st birthday the next day and it was late in the day when I went.  I had to go to a local dominican salon, the charged me too much, then didn't do a good job, and it took till 10pm at night.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/1094349425285180141/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=1094349425285180141&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/1094349425285180141'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/1094349425285180141'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/06/one-year.html' title='One Year...'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-8492282961111971577</id><published>2010-05-14T12:49:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2010-06-29T12:55:02.871-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Transition'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Stiletto Approved'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='My hair'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Natural hair'/><title type='text'>Transition Tales: Bun Donut</title><summary type='text'>Hi Guy,TGIF TGIF TGIF, I don't think I can say it enough!I wanted to share my favorite bad hair day buddy with some of you that may not be aware of a buns best friend The Bun Donut (Form)!This hands down has been on of the best purchases that I've made during my transition.  On day when my two textures are not getting along a little gel and this little donut make everything right with the world. </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/8492282961111971577/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=8492282961111971577&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/8492282961111971577'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/8492282961111971577'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/05/transition-tales-bun-donut.html' title='Transition Tales: Bun Donut'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-4658881446486322936</id><published>2010-05-12T15:46:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T19:38:21.634-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Nikki Stiletto'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Update'/><title type='text'>Trails, Triblations, and a Paycheck</title><summary type='text'>Hello People,Its been a while but much like poltergeist I'm Backkkkkkk!I've been MIA while I deal with some issues I've been having on the job front. Things have been really traumatic for me, I've been treated in such a way that made me want to leave and never (EVER EVER) look back, of course I have bills to pay so currently this is not an realistic option. My work situation has given me many</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/4658881446486322936/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=4658881446486322936&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/4658881446486322936'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/4658881446486322936'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/05/trails-triblations-and-paycheck.html' title='Trails, Triblations, and a Paycheck'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-4507488330746517521</id><published>2010-05-10T22:52:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-05-12T22:58:50.563-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='RIP'/><title type='text'>RIP Lena Horne</title><summary type='text'>Class.....It can't be brought, it can't be learned, some are just born with it.  the world has lost a class act.Rest In Peace Lena Horne</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/4507488330746517521/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=4507488330746517521&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/4507488330746517521'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/4507488330746517521'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/05/rip-lena-horne.html' title='RIP Lena Horne'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-1714508271900998929</id><published>2010-04-15T01:08:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2010-04-15T01:18:18.135-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='New music'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Stiletto Approved'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Maxwell'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Links'/><title type='text'>New Video: Maxwell "Fist Full of Tears"</title><summary type='text'>Three of my favorite words:NEW MAXWELL VIDEO! (Enjoy the link)http://www.vevo.com/watch/maxwell/fistful-of-tears/USSM20902172</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/1714508271900998929/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=1714508271900998929&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/1714508271900998929'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/1714508271900998929'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/04/new-video-maxwell-fist-full-of-tears.html' title='New Video: Maxwell &quot;Fist Full of Tears&quot;'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-3970237104606132466</id><published>2010-04-13T09:57:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T19:33:05.381-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Nikki Stiletto'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Real Talk'/><title type='text'>Why do we love the "Bad Boy"</title><summary type='text'>So I tuned into The Wendy "How you doing" Williams (don't judge me) because I heard Jaheim was going to be performing. His latest album is in heavy rotation in my Zune as of late and I own all of the previous albums as well. It's not just his amazing voice which is so reminiscent of old soul crooners but I am so attracted to his "street" edge (and ashamed to admit it). This made me ponder the "</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/3970237104606132466/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=3970237104606132466&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/3970237104606132466'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/3970237104606132466'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/04/why-do-we-love-bad-boy.html' title='Why do we love the &quot;Bad Boy&quot;'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-920561018977330236</id><published>2010-04-09T12:33:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T19:25:30.933-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Transition'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='My hair'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Natural hair'/><title type='text'>Transition Staple Style....for Now</title><summary type='text'>OK so after really battling with my hair for the past two months while transitioning I finally hit my stride! I have finally found a transition style that does not make me looking like who did it and ran at work on a daily basis. I have decided that small two strand twist are going to my staple. I know its not really a big revelation, lots of naturals do two strand twist while transitioning but </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/920561018977330236/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=920561018977330236&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/920561018977330236'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/920561018977330236'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/04/transition-staple-stylefor-now.html' title='Transition Staple Style....for Now'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-2280287771224325193</id><published>2010-03-17T15:58:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T19:20:23.749-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='The Shoe Closet'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Stiletto Approved'/><title type='text'>The Shoe Closet: Vince Camuto Women's Aphrodite</title><summary type='text'>I saw these shoes on Shoes.com and fell in love ( http://www.shoes.com/Shopping/ProductDetails.aspx?p=EC1213193&amp;pg=5122037 ). I don't know if its the burst of beautiful weather or my hunt for the perfect outfit for my Maxwell/Jill Scott concert, but these shoes are moving my world right now! These Vince Camuto 4 inch heels sling back pumps with the faux reptile-print are </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/2280287771224325193/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=2280287771224325193&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/2280287771224325193'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/2280287771224325193'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/03/shoe-closet-vince-camuto-womens.html' title='The Shoe Closet: Vince Camuto Women&apos;s Aphrodite'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-1306110695282694873</id><published>2010-03-16T15:51:00.009-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T19:18:32.394-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jill Scott'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Events'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Stiletto Approved'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Maxwell'/><title type='text'>The Golden Ticket!!!!!</title><summary type='text'>So when I heard the rumor of this concert I thought This is too good to be true. Then Maxwell confirmed it I thought, I HAVE TO HAVE THESE TICKETS. So last Thursday with pre-sale promo code and credit card in hand I brought the ticket to the event that is going to kick off my summer! Maxwell and Jill Scott LIVE and Madison Square Garden June 25. When I say I cannot wait for this </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/1306110695282694873/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=1306110695282694873&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/1306110695282694873'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/1306110695282694873'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/03/golden-ticket.html' title='The Golden Ticket!!!!!'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/S5_jRX_B3xI/AAAAAAAAABg/BBjrhzfyzao/s72-c/MaxJill.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-6496427841520006407</id><published>2010-03-15T11:15:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-03-15T18:50:14.306-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='My hair'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Product Alert'/><title type='text'>Finally found it!!!</title><summary type='text'>FINNNALLLYYYYHello People,So the minute I heard that Suave was coming out with their new shampoo &amp; conditioner line with natural ingredients I was extra excited to try them. But after a extensive search of the local drug stores in my area I came up (sadly) empty.  Well as luck would have it a trip to Target this weekend FINALLY allowed me to find what I'd wanted, so I purchase the Shea Butter &amp; </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/6496427841520006407/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=6496427841520006407&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/6496427841520006407'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/6496427841520006407'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/03/finally-found-it.html' title='Finally found it!!!'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-2989890202857879161</id><published>2010-03-11T14:14:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T19:17:11.210-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Nikki Stiletto'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Update'/><title type='text'>Educational Decisions...</title><summary type='text'>I always intending on furthering my educational pursuits even after my LONGGGGG journey to complete my Bachelors. So after some indecision on a a school (and major for that matter) and after attending a very informative Open House and i think I've finally make a concrete decision. I've decided to pursue my MPA (Master of Public Administration) with a specialization in Non Profit organizations. I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/2989890202857879161/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=2989890202857879161&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/2989890202857879161'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/2989890202857879161'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/03/educational-decisions.html' title='Educational Decisions...'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-5063158319265196988</id><published>2010-02-11T13:24:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T19:12:04.198-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='RIP'/><title type='text'>RIP Alexander McQueen</title><summary type='text'>Designer Alexander McQueen passed away today. A Fashion Artist who will be dearly missed...</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/5063158319265196988/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=5063158319265196988&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/5063158319265196988'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/5063158319265196988'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/02/rip-alexander-mcqueen.html' title='RIP Alexander McQueen'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Tt6AIhuy3ek/SAu5HT8U6yI/AAAAAAAACUI/7FlKNxPNRr8/s72-c/mcqueen.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-6717094721870651855</id><published>2010-02-11T12:20:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2010-02-11T12:45:07.368-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Product Alert'/><title type='text'>Product Alert: Fiat Luxe Soaps</title><summary type='text'>I seen this on AOL today and I was intrigued! Felted Soaps(Check out the article: http://shopping.aol.com/articles/2010/02/09/felted-soap/ )They are soaps from a company called Fiat Luxehttp://www.fiatluxedesigns.com/products.phpThe Soaps are all natural, they have a vegetable oil base and use essential oils. This is a great alternative to a loofah (and I am a loofah lover) They are soaps covered</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/6717094721870651855/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=6717094721870651855&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/6717094721870651855'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/6717094721870651855'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/02/product-alert-fiat-luxe-soaps.html' title='Product Alert: Fiat Luxe Soaps'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-6370021973202586989</id><published>2010-02-10T13:45:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T19:07:16.557-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Stiletto Deals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Advice'/><title type='text'>Valentine's Day (if your into that type of stuff)</title><summary type='text'>Hello People,For all of you who take the Valentine's Day thing seriously (Me not being one of them) I got a great FREE gift idea for you!!!!!!If you want to do something sentimental and your funds are low (what we like to call "Recessional Love") I got a great idea, send your significant other (or insignificant other, depending on how and with whom you are currently involved with....) a RADIO </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/6370021973202586989/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=6370021973202586989&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/6370021973202586989'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/6370021973202586989'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/02/valentines-day-if-your-into-that-type.html' title='Valentine&apos;s Day (if your into that type of stuff)'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-8918976555067857733</id><published>2010-02-01T17:06:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T19:01:17.412-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Haiti'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Giving Back'/><title type='text'>Haiti Still Needs Your Help</title><summary type='text'>It is so easy to forget a tragedy once it fades from national attention or once CNN is on to the next thing. Please don't forget to donate to Haiti (if you still have not) or to continue to give even if you have. The need is ongoing and so should be your capacity to give. I decide this year to dedicate more of my time and money to giving on a local, national, and international level. So I implore</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/8918976555067857733/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=8918976555067857733&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/8918976555067857733'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/8918976555067857733'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/02/haiti-still-needs-your-help.html' title='Haiti Still Needs Your Help'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-4559700259223739879</id><published>2010-01-21T15:53:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T18:56:38.882-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Transition'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Nikki Stiletto'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='My hair'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Natural hair'/><title type='text'>The Long and Short of it!</title><summary type='text'>So me and my hair are fighting.....Or you might say I am fighting my hair, I love the way my natural hair is going but I am still transitioning and my old relaxed ends are not going along with the program. I'm in transitions hell because I want to hold on to my length until my natural hair grows out more. Most people tell me just BC and get it over with but it is so much easier said then done. </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/4559700259223739879/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=4559700259223739879&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/4559700259223739879'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/4559700259223739879'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/01/long-and-short-of-it.html' title='The Long and Short of it!'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-6856857023005717176</id><published>2010-01-13T09:16:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T18:58:47.710-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Haiti'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Giving Back'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Prayer'/><title type='text'>Please Help Haiti</title><summary type='text'>My heart and prayers go out to the Haiti (which shares the Island of Hispaniola with the Dominican Republic) after yesterday's devastating earthquake. I encourage people to pray for those alive, missing, and those who were lost. More then just prayers I encourage everyone to help, give money, give time, send clothes, find ways to help this country. Haiti is the poorest country in Caribbean (as </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/6856857023005717176/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=6856857023005717176&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/6856857023005717176'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/6856857023005717176'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/01/please-help-haiti.html' title='Please Help Haiti'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-1646931759719077052</id><published>2010-01-11T17:18:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T18:53:35.087-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='My hair'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Update'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Natural hair'/><title type='text'>Hair Struggles</title><summary type='text'>Hello People,2010 is off an running and so far so good, 11 days in and I am cautiously optimistic. So my issue for the day, my hair is pissing me off. Ok not all my hair but I am transitioning and the 2 texture are driving me nuts. It is so hard to get one the way you want it an then have your permed edges decide they want to do whatever the heck they want. OK simple problem right just BC (big </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/1646931759719077052/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=1646931759719077052&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/1646931759719077052'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/1646931759719077052'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/01/long-and-short-of-it_11.html' title='Hair Struggles'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-1202143534920989830</id><published>2010-01-06T12:33:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T18:46:29.420-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Nikki Stiletto'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Real Talk'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Michael Jackson'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='New Year'/><title type='text'>Brand Spanking New Year</title><summary type='text'>So 2009 finally left the building, and thank God it did. Not that I am not thank full for another year of life but 2009 was something else.Happy 2010 PeopleAnywho here we are again, me and my random thoughts and you and your short attention span, we are quite a pair! So I did the usual on New Year Eve, too much champagne with my boyfriends, twilight zone marathon, and falling asleep before 2</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/1202143534920989830/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=1202143534920989830&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/1202143534920989830'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/1202143534920989830'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2010/01/brand-spanking-new-year.html' title='Brand Spanking New Year'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-1353903439512079233</id><published>2009-12-21T17:27:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T18:31:00.508-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Randomness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Relationships'/><title type='text'>Harmless Flirtation</title><summary type='text'>So the big East Coast Blizzard is over, kind of anti climatic for me because1. We didn't get as much snow as predicted 2. It happened on a Saturday night which mean it would not result in a day off on Monday....Whomp Whomp :-( Anywho I was leaving the house this morning to go to work and make the most of may last three days before Christmas break and I got a call on my cell phone from a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/1353903439512079233/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=1353903439512079233&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/1353903439512079233'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/1353903439512079233'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2009/12/harmless-flirtation.html' title='Harmless Flirtation'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-4261005638271495738</id><published>2009-12-14T23:20:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T18:25:18.081-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Been MIA'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Update'/><title type='text'>I Know I Know</title><summary type='text'>OK so I'm wack, I get it....i promise to post and don't, I've got more excuses then Tiger Woods in a room full of blonde's I know I know. But I digress life as usual has me in a vice grip and leaves little time for leisure (plus I a procrastinator so that doesn't help!). The holidays are upon us and that means food, fun and family...... For the most part I enjoy being around my family but over </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/4261005638271495738/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=4261005638271495738&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/4261005638271495738'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/4261005638271495738'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2009/12/i-know-i-know.html' title='I Know I Know'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-2339136602838513289</id><published>2009-10-26T14:18:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T18:19:16.669-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Rant'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Real Talk'/><title type='text'>Transitions</title><summary type='text'>So essentially it seems everything in my life right now is conspiring against me to make me change.........Ok, let me stop that sounded really over dramatic, but there is some truth it in. I guess when I started transitioning my hair it ushered in the desire to make transitional changes in other parts of my life. Currently my career is at a standstill, my job which i am great at has now become </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/2339136602838513289/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=2339136602838513289&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/2339136602838513289'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/2339136602838513289'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2009/10/transitions.html' title='Transitions'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-451417154348388669</id><published>2009-10-18T18:52:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-10-18T19:40:47.228-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Randomness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Really  So Thats What We&apos;re Doing Now'/><title type='text'>Maxwell &amp; Aunt Flo!!!</title><summary type='text'>You know my love for Maxwell runs deep, he is talented and sexy, and if you have been to any of his concerts he is clearly lets his freak flag fly.  So I had to post the following:I came across this on www.bossip.com a couple of weeks back, it was a quote from Maxwell during one of his concerts its about sex with a woman on her period......yeah I am not commenting on this one click the link and </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/451417154348388669/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=451417154348388669&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/451417154348388669'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/451417154348388669'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2009/10/maxwell-aunt-flo.html' title='Maxwell &amp; Aunt Flo!!!'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-5656740657401216636</id><published>2009-10-16T13:34:00.008-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T18:10:25.722-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Been MIA'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Update'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Links'/><title type='text'>Being MIA and NYC Freeze</title><summary type='text'>We are experiencing early WINTER WEATHER in NYC and I am NOT a fan. The city that never sleeps should not be covered in frost in October!Ok I've been busy..... hell I just been to tired and preoccupied to blog......don't judge me! Between my home life, a impromptu to trip to the south, and a few 12 hour work day my mind was elsewhere, hell even my feet are are not into it, I haven rocked a pair</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/5656740657401216636/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=5656740657401216636&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/5656740657401216636'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/5656740657401216636'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2009/10/my-excuses-for-being-mia-and-nyc-freeze.html' title='Being MIA and NYC Freeze'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-389948127296544749</id><published>2009-09-14T15:46:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T18:06:04.016-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Rant'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Randome Cleb Mess'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Really  So Thats What We&apos;re Doing Now'/><title type='text'>My Kayne Rant......</title><summary type='text'>I know everyone and their mother's have weighted in on the jackassary that is Kanye West drunken award show fiasco last night, but I have to add my 2 cent (of course). What he did was the equivalent of taking taking candy from a baby or showing up drunk or to thanksgiving dinner. What he did was destructive and selfish as hell, it wasn't about Beyonce's video, it was about him and his </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/389948127296544749/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=389948127296544749&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/389948127296544749'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/389948127296544749'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2009/09/my-kayne-rant.html' title='My Kayne Rant......'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-1870038981937140038</id><published>2009-09-12T13:01:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T17:59:56.175-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='New York'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Randomness'/><title type='text'>New York State of Mind</title><summary type='text'>Its a dreary day in NYC, the weather is gray it 65 degrees and it is the day after the 8th Anniversary of 9/11. I can't believe it been 8 years, it all seems so vivid like it happened yesterday. Its still so sad to think of it and still heartbreaking to hear the victims names being read every year during the memorial. People always post 9/11 Never Forget, I don't think that is possible....... </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/1870038981937140038/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=1870038981937140038&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/1870038981937140038'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/1870038981937140038'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2009/09/new-york-state-of-mind.html' title='New York State of Mind'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-2625588374381320129</id><published>2009-09-06T17:53:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T17:52:54.450-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Really  So Thats What We&apos;re Doing Now'/><title type='text'>Never Miss The Water</title><summary type='text'>OK I've been preoccupied again, not updating, blogging, twitter. I been crazy busy with work and I'm just been in a funk lately. The ghost of relationship past decide to come and haunt my house two weeks ago. Lets call him "Dexter", he is a extremely handsome WORKAHOLIC with Carmel brown skin, and a velvety island accent. We had and on and off relationship of convenience for both of us for about </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/2625588374381320129/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=2625588374381320129&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/2625588374381320129'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/2625588374381320129'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2009/09/never-miss-water.html' title='Never Miss The Water'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-8397768941136620485</id><published>2009-08-29T10:34:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-29T10:55:52.334-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='RIP'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Happy Birthday'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Michael Jackson'/><title type='text'>Give It Up For The KING</title><summary type='text'>TODAY TOMORROWFOREVER MJ</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/8397768941136620485/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=8397768941136620485&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/8397768941136620485'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/8397768941136620485'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2009/08/give-it-up-for-king.html' title='Give It Up For The KING'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SplBNJXBBwI/AAAAAAAAABI/kGtGBQL0O9I/s72-c/michael-jackson_15.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-698802178431385915</id><published>2009-08-18T12:31:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T17:39:09.101-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Randomness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Really  So Thats What We&apos;re Doing Now'/><title type='text'>Ex's and Explanations</title><summary type='text'>It is another day of bipolar New York weather....it went from raining and mild last week to a heat wave this week. I guess I picked the right time to go natural because this is sweat out your relaxer weather. I am happy to be at work just because we have central air! I do wish I was at the beach thought right now, I gotten relatively no sun all summer. So on to today's randomness, I ran into a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/698802178431385915/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=698802178431385915&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/698802178431385915'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/698802178431385915'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2009/08/exs-and-explanations.html' title='Ex&apos;s and Explanations'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-2772677023991131253</id><published>2009-08-17T18:17:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T17:29:31.956-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Randomness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Update'/><title type='text'>Sorry....Been Busy</title><summary type='text'>Hello People,Sorry I been busy tying up some loose ends and basically just enjoying some time off. So basically here is what you've missed while I've been on cyberspace vacation I've decided to get off the "creamy crack" and stop using relaxers in my hair, I'm going naturalMy uncle passed away from cancerI introduced my boyfriend to the other side of the family and it went wellI found a new</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/2772677023991131253/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=2772677023991131253&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/2772677023991131253'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/2772677023991131253'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2009/08/sorrybeen-busy.html' title='Sorry....Been Busy'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-408666440203387220</id><published>2009-07-29T09:20:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T17:24:10.630-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Real Talk'/><title type='text'>Love With Your Head and Not Just Your Heart</title><summary type='text'>The concept of love has been romanticized, sprayed with perfume and wrapped up in a pretty bow for a long time. The “idea” of love is always more attractive then the reality of love and that what has tainted people’s expectations of relationship should be. The butterflies in the stomach are nice and the euphoria of new love is amazing but there come a point when you have to make the hard decision</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/408666440203387220/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=408666440203387220&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/408666440203387220'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/408666440203387220'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2009/07/love-with-your-head-and-not-just-your.html' title='Love With Your Head and Not Just Your Heart'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-3884775694628783856</id><published>2009-07-27T22:10:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T17:14:29.953-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Cheaper to Keep Her</title><summary type='text'>So as much as I have other important thing going on in my life and not much time for the proverbial BS and the gossip (well I do have a little time, gossip blogs are addictive). I had and interesting conversation this weekend with one of my male friends about the whole Nas and Kelis situation (not familiar Google it). His position was that it is crazy that Nas has to pay her (Kelis) so much money</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/3884775694628783856/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=3884775694628783856&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/3884775694628783856'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/3884775694628783856'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2009/07/cheaper-to-keep-her.html' title='Cheaper to Keep Her'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-3640444531180391607</id><published>2009-07-27T21:58:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-07-27T22:02:42.337-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Just Because....</title><summary type='text'>Will Demps is so damn fine I hade to post this pic.....EnjoyThanks to Panache Report for this delicious pic.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/3640444531180391607/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=3640444531180391607&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/3640444531180391607'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/3640444531180391607'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2009/07/just-because.html' title='Just Because....'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-1557766353939728488</id><published>2009-07-24T14:39:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-07-24T14:44:37.406-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Friday Fun'/><title type='text'>Just Because Its Friday....</title><summary type='text'>If this doesn't make your day better then give up and try again tomorrow, and when you have no one else to blame...... blame it in "the boogie"!</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/1557766353939728488/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=1557766353939728488&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/1557766353939728488'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/1557766353939728488'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2009/07/just-because-its-friday.html' title='Just Because Its Friday....'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-3935887031225375364</id><published>2009-07-23T09:11:00.007-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T17:04:38.048-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Advice'/><title type='text'>Let Go If Its Not Working!</title><summary type='text'>Let begin by stating the obvious: Relationships are hard work!They are compromise, struggle, and often sacrifice. It take a lot of effort on both parties part to help the relationship thrive. with that being said there is a difference between working on your relationship and struggling in a relationship that doesn't work. Case in point my relationship with my ex-boyfriend (quintessential </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/3935887031225375364/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=3935887031225375364&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/3935887031225375364'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/3935887031225375364'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2009/07/if-its-that-hard-it-not-worth-it.html' title='Let Go If Its Not Working!'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-2135728786439012202</id><published>2009-07-19T00:06:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-07-19T00:26:45.629-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Hosea Chanchez'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='New music'/><title type='text'>Hosea Chanchez - New Music</title><summary type='text'>I had to post this because I adore Hosea Chanchez from the show The Game.  This is new music from him that i jacked from Concrete Loop (http://concreteloop.com)Follow the link and tell me what you think: http://concreteloop.com/2009/07/hot-or-not-hosea-kancer</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/2135728786439012202/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=2135728786439012202&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/2135728786439012202'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/2135728786439012202'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2009/07/hosea-chanchez-new-music.html' title='Hosea Chanchez - New Music'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-2848844548313485014</id><published>2009-07-18T23:19:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T16:55:51.976-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Randomness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='I don&apos;t get it'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Rant'/><title type='text'>What is the Appeal?</title><summary type='text'>Ok I'm in the mood for a random rant, this is what happens when your home all day with too much time on your hands. This is my top 5 list of people or things that I don's understand other people's love for... Drake- you will always be Wheelchair Jimmy from Dregrassi to me, you aren't really bringing anything new to hip hop. so whats all the excitement about? (and we are not even gonna discuss "</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/2848844548313485014/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=2848844548313485014&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/2848844548313485014'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/2848844548313485014'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2009/07/what-is-appeal.html' title='What is the Appeal?'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-460051466745833915</id><published>2009-07-18T21:21:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T16:52:36.615-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='GI Joe'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Drama Free Summer'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Miami'/><title type='text'>Lazy Saturday &amp; Drama Free Summer</title><summary type='text'>I keep seeing the trailer for GI Joe and i have questions, When did Marlon Wayans become the sexy one? Didn't see that one coming, but now I've got even more incentive to want to see it. It was so damn hot today I didn't leave the house, passed on going to a BBQ, but the night is now breezy and calm. I may go out for drinks with the girls, we went out Thursday night for the usual drinks, food, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/460051466745833915/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=460051466745833915&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/460051466745833915'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/460051466745833915'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2009/07/lazy-saturday-drama-free-summer.html' title='Lazy Saturday &amp; Drama Free Summer'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3900751534591952255.post-6393010587988604687</id><published>2009-07-15T12:34:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-27T16:45:04.632-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Michael Jackson'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Vacation'/><title type='text'>Vacation and MJ Burnout</title><summary type='text'>Ok I know everybody has weighted in on Michael Jackson's passing but I've got to weight in on it, so let me have my official Chris Crocker moment and say LEAVE MICHAEL ALONE. Let the poor man rest in peace. He is gone now, stop exploiting him and his memory. If speculation were dollars then we be out of this recession! I'm suffering MJ burnout, I've been a fan since I was a kid but with all this </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/feeds/6393010587988604687/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3900751534591952255&amp;postID=6393010587988604687&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/6393010587988604687'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3900751534591952255/posts/default/6393010587988604687'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://nikkistiletto.blogspot.com/2009/07/vacation-and-mj-burnout.html' title='Vacation and MJ Burnout'/><author><name>Nikki Stiletto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10806979586016400252</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WQdzCJ1pgI8/SmhfNARfLsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/yAwydUhiJ1o/S220/shoes_highend.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
